Friday, February 15, 2008

monologue 31 ~TEKa -TeKi HiDup~






Hidup...penuh dengan teka-teki...
Penuh tanda tanya..
Benda berlaku tanpa kita jangka....
Tanpa kita minta....
Kalam ALLAH dalam Kitab Sucinya ternyata benar.
Apa yang kita nak tak selalunya yang terbaik untuk kita..
Apa yang terbaik untuk kita tak semestinya yang kita mahu..
Barangkali apa yang kita benci pada hari ini
Satu hari nanti akan menjadi kesayangan kita
Dan barangkali apa yang kita sayang hari ini
Bakal menjadi kebencian kita kelak
Berdoa la pada DIA
Dialah yang memberikan kita kebahagiaan
Dan Dia jualah yang memberi kita derita
Dia jualah yang menghamparkan bahagia
Dan Dia jua yang mengutuskan duka
Namun pada DIA jua kita adukan segalanya..
Teka teki hidup terus berputar tanpa hujungnya
Tak siapa tahu apa yang bakal terjadi esok
Tak siapa tahu apa yang bakal ditempuh esok
Mungkin duka
Dan mungkin jua bahagia
Yang pasti
Moga esok menjadi lebih baik untuk kita....

Tuesday, February 12, 2008

monologue 30 ~You ARe NeVer ALONe~

Life is so unpredictable.
Sometimes you laugh and sometimes you cry.
Sometimes you happy and sometimes you sad.
A moment you're having fun with people around you
and the next moment you felt very lonely.
You have no one to talk to..
There's nobody to hold your hand
You try to go on
But it's seem too hard...
Every steps you take
You doubt how far you can go..
Sometimes the world not on your side
You don't know where to run to
You don't know where to hide
You gaze at the stars in the sky
At the mountain so high
To the tears in your eyes

Looking fOr reason to replace what is gone
Just remember ,remember that
YOU ARE NEVER ALONE
Just reaching to your heart
and ALLAH is always there
YOU ARE NEVER ALONE
Through sorrow and the grief
Through happiness and peace
YOU ARE NEVER ALONE

You are very special
No one is like you
Created by the MASTER of everything
HE know you from the start
You are very special

Whatever life will bring you
Whatever you will be
Just looking to your heart
You will find that ALLAH is always by your side

The heart of muslim must be strong
ALLAH doesn't look on how you look
But what is inside you
Sharing of what you have
Fill your heart with Love..
So living as a muslim
You must play your part..
So whatever you do
Honesty is the best
As life is a test
Even it hurt so much
You wanna cry...

Saturday, February 9, 2008

monologue 29 ~DOaKu~

Ya ALLAH perkenankanlah doa-doaku
"Moga segala kesilapanku dimaafkan oleh semua orang"

"segala keterlanjuran yang aku lakukan tak akan melukai hati orang lain"

"Aku berharap orang takkan menyimpan rasa terhadap sikap ku"

"Aku berdoa moga segala yang aku lakukan adalah yang terbaik untuk aku dan semua"

"Moga ALLAH sentiasa memimpin aku ke jalan yang lurus..tidak tersilap langkah"
"Orang lain takkan sedih disebabkan aku..Aku berharap aku mampu menghadiahkan senyuman kepada semua orang"
"Jauhkan segala maksiat dan kejahatan dari hidup aku"
"Berikan aku ketenangan dalam meniti hidup di dunia ini"
"Peliharakan aku dan kawan-kawanku dari bisikan syaitan yang selalu mendorong kepada kejahatan"
"Anugerahkan kami kejayaan dan kemenangan di dunia mahupun akhirat"
"Jangan jadikan aku fitnah kepada orang lain"
"Jadikan aku anak solehah yang mampu menjaga kedua ibu bapa ku yang telah membesarkan aku dan menjadikan aku sepertimana aku pada hari ini.Kurniakan mereka berdua kasih sayangMu sebagaimana mereka mengasihi aku di saat aku masih belum mampu berbicara"
"Kurniakan aku teman sejati yang mampu menenangkan hatiku di kala aku kesedihan,yang mampu membuat aku ketawa di kala aku gundah ,yang mampu memperbetulkan di saat aku salah,yang mampu menyokong aku di kala aku jatuh ,yang mampu meniupkan semangat di kala aku lemah dan yang mampu menuntun aku bersama-sama dengannya ke syurga tertinggi MU "
Ya ALLAH perkenankan segala doa-doaku ini..AMEEN...

Friday, February 8, 2008

10 KeyS to Ultimate Success

~PART 1~

KEY 1 MOTIVATION

"The driving force of human behavior"

Motivation comes from Latin word "motere" which means "to move"
Webster's dictionary defines motivation as doing something that causes a person to act.If you look at the word motivation you could read as "motive-action".It is an action that is cause by a motive.


Let me tell you a story.A young man sought out a Chinese monk to learn the secret of success.He asked" Could you please tell me the secret of success?" The monk quitely said "Motivation". "Where motivation comes from?" "From your burning desire",reply the monk.Puzzled, the young man asked"How can someone has a burnig desire?"Then the monk brought a pot of water and put both hands on the young man's head and push it into the water.The young man was shocked and for first few second,scarely moved.Then he began to move a little to free himself but as he ran out of oxygen,he struggled violently and succeed freeing himself.He looked at the monk and demanded,"What are you doing?" Smilling,the monk asked," What did you learn from this experience?" "Nothing",the young man answered."Oh no,you learned a lot.For the first few seconds you wanted to free yourself.You were motivated to do so but not enough.The following second.you were motivated to free yourself but still not enough.And then in the final second when you have a burning desire to free yourself,you became unstoppable.Then and only then you succed in freeing yourself" With a smile he said ,"When you have the burning desire to succed,no one can stop you and that's the secret of success"



3 types of motivation


1) SURVIVAL MOTIVATION

Survival motivation pushes you to fulfil the primary needs such as food,water and oxygen.If one of these missing,a primary drive within you fires various neural center in your brain .As the neural cell fire rapidly,you become arously physically and motivated to do whatever to takes to satisfy the need.Sounds complicated? Let me gives you an example:

Imagine that you are crossing a highway after making sure that there are no cars coming but as you are walking slowly,you notice a big truck coming toward you,what would you do? Run,right?
Let's say you go back home after a long day of work and have no energy to do anything.You decide to stretch out,watching television and relax.Suddenly you hear someone screaming,"Fire!!!" What would you do? Run,right? So,what happened to your energy? It became powerful.


So no matter what's going on in your life,when your survival is threatened,you became alert,creative nad more motivated.



2)EXTERNAL MOTIVATION


This type of motivation comes from the outside of the world,from the speakers at seminar,friends,family members,magazine and book,etc.The problem with external motivation is that it fades quickly.

Let me asked you a question.Have you ever been to a motivation seminar? If your answer is yes,then how motivated were you one weeks later? How about a month later?Of course your level of motivation dropped.

Unfortunately human being rely a great deal on external motivation to feel appreciated by their teacher,friends,family members.We want the approval of others.We want to be appreciated and we want people to think highly of us to validate our self-worth.So sometime we'll do things we don't really want to do and say thing we don't want to say.


3) INTERNAL MOTIVATION


The most powerful and lasting.With internal motivation you are driven by your own inner forces to acomplish great result.

This is the power of internal motivation.There was a woman with 5 children who was very close to her husband.She took good care of him,the children,the house.But she was faced with great challenge when her husband left her for another woman.Instead of sitting around crying and wondering why he left,she found work as a maid in a small motel.And less than 5 years she owned it.Again she was driven by her inner power.

Internal motivation is what causes an ordinary person to do extraordinary thing and achieve great result.It is the power behind the success and happiness of human being.It is the driving force of human behaviour.It is the power that will push you to plant your own garden instead of waiting someone to give you flowers.

Internal motivation is the light that comes from within.It is the sleeping giant inside of you that is waiting to be awakened.

Sunday, February 3, 2008

monologue 28 ~Guilty~


Rasa bersalah..perasaan yang selalu wujud dalam diri kita....Bila rasa ni wujud otak kita akan selalu berfikir..


"apa la salah aku"

"jahat sgt ke aku ni"

"nape mesti org tu terasa ngn aku"


Hati jadi x tenang..Jiwa tak tenteram...Rasa gundah ...Kecewa....kecik Hati..semua bermain2 dalam diri...Kadang2 kita tak tahu ape salah kita yang menyebabkan hati jadik makin tertanya2..


Orang yang menimbulkan rasa bersalah dalam diri kita gembira ke bila tengok kita jadik mcm tu? Puas ke hati meka bila mereka berjaya memunculkan diri sebagai mangsa n kita sebagai sang pesalah yang bersalah?


di sini KEMAAFAN benda terpenting..TOLERANSI....saling MEMAHAMI dapat menghambat rasa bersalah dari hati ini..Bila satu pihak sedia menghadirkan rasa ini dalam jiwa mereka satu pihak lagi takkkan menderita..


Kadang2 jugak rasa bersalah jugak penting..BAgi menyedarkan orang yang tak sedar.Bagi memperbaiki diri menjadi lebih baik.Teguran dari org bukan la untuk menjatuhkan kita..Kita perlu sedar teguran sahabat itu adalah dari ALLAH..ALLAH menjadikan mereka sebagai jalan untuk membantu kita menjadi lebih baik...



For da sake of everyone..i'll try not to be da one tat wil make others feel guilty ....



WAHAI SEMUA ORANG MAAFKAN SAYA

&

SAYA JUGAK MAAFKAN SEMUA ORANG